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Posted on 07/13/2009

Married guy who has reached that time in life when he needs to experiment & experience alternative life styles. Happily married as much as any guy can be & not looking to destroy his marriage but needs to fulfill fantasies. If you find yourself in a similar situation with similar desires, then act upon it, contact me & let's explore life's pleasures together. Total discretion, no drama, just two normal guys doing what feels good.



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Posted on 01/07/2010

Thanks for replying to my blog. just drop me a line or message me. I hope I'll be able to help you.



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Posted on 01/07/2010

The only way is to give it a try. If you were in Southern California then I would volunteer my services. If you manage to hook up with someone just make your boundaries clear as to what you would like to try. You can lessen the risk of your wife ever finding out by traveling outside of your area & never use your real name. This will give you a chance satisfy your curiousity with the minimum of risk. If you are anything like me, then you will feel some guilt after but this quickly disappears. I am the straightest of guys you could ever meet. I still love my wife & thoroughly enjoy our sex life.



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Posted on 01/05/2010

I'm a bi virgin as well but would love to try oral. I can't believe how many of us are out there.



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Posted on 01/05/2010

I'm a bi virgin as well but would love to try oral. I can't believe how many of us are out there.



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Posted on 01/05/2010

I'm dieing to try xxx as well. This is getting me very excited. Don't want my wife to know either but just can't get it off my mind



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Posted on 01/05/2010

I guess we all have the same story, my last bisexual encounter was well over 11 years ago but its something I cant get out of my mind, I really enjoyed it and miss it alot, im looking for a "new friend" myself



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Posted on 12/03/2009

Been there, doing that. I am bi--I like it with my wife, and I like it with men on the down-low. With men, I like kissing and giving head. Never been into anal.



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Posted on 09/29/2009

I too have been in this situation, told my ex-wife many years ago and she played on this a bit for a time. I still remembr fondly the first time a man was in me & how hard it made me but did not act on any of these feelings whilst I was married. Towards the end of the marrage my wife started to play with the idea of other people in our relationship but I think she was guilty because she was seeing someone else. I still loved her and that hurt intensely as she really only wanted him.



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Posted on 09/18/2009

I feel the same way & also on the east coast. Maybe we could talk?



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Posted on 09/18/2009

hi, all.

I'm also in a happy marriage, but have come to realize that I'm gay and always have been. I first knew when I was 13 and attending a boy's private boarding school. I had an active gay sex life until about four years after I graduated from college.
I got married then because a wife was expected for someone in my career track. I tried to convince myself that I was bi and it worked for 35 years, with many sexual experiences over those year. I still love my wife, but gay sex is the only thing I desire. I think I know just how you feel stretch. I too like it best when a guy is in me. I hope you find the relationship you're looking for.



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Posted on 09/15/2009

Yes I know how you feel. I have struggled with the urges since I was a teenager. Have had intermitent experiences all throughout my life. In each occassion it has been the man approaching me. It got me to wondering about whether or not I was gay as opposed to bi.
I like all things about being with a guy. I love it best when I have a guy in me and he is on top of me looking at me. I can't describe how much of a turn on that is. I know its not for everyone, but it certainly turns my crank.
My urges come from time to time, but when they come its hard to stop them. I just live with it and if the occassion presents itself with the right guy, it happens.
I have yet to find the right guy to have a long on going relationship with, someone you can talk comfortably with and is also good in bed.
I don't want my wife to find out and plan that she never will. Its just something I have to deal with.



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Posted on 09/02/2009

I was married and now not to sure about preferences.. I'm attracted to only some guys, all my mates are good looking, but they are friends.. couldn't act on them.plus most don't know how i feel.. at the moment i will let guys suck me off, i suppose i'm well endowed when erect, abit over 7.5 inches, and have only givien head once, it was ok.. still not sure if i am 50/50, i think 90f/10g until i xperience more.



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Posted on 09/01/2009

John,

I right there with you. I'm in a good marriage and want to keep it that way, but I have desires that go beyond what my wife can offer. Unfortunately, I live on the east coast. But, maybe we can communicate further. I don't like that this site wants me to subscribe in order to exchange emails.



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Posted on 08/31/2009

I feel the same. I don't want my wife to find out about my desires. I love giving oral (I guess), I am a virgin in bi experience.



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